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HARVARD GAZETTE ARCHIVES
Girls Steer Toward Self-Esteem
By Alvin Powell
Contributing Writer

Joan McDonald (right), course director for Ventures in Girls' Education,
shows basic canoe strokes during a shore lecture Saturday. Photo by Alvin
Powell.
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Mary McCorvey and Mousson Berrouet both smiled nervously and
admitted they hadn't ever been in a canoe before. Neither
swims very well either.
Still, there they were, life-jacketed and walking down a forested
dirt road in Medfield, Mass., last Saturday, May 1, heading toward a
group of canoes pulled up on the bank of the nearby Charles River.
"Hopefully, we're going to get an experienced person in
our canoe," McCorvey said.
McCorvey, a master's degree student at the Graduate School
of Education, and Berrouet, a 7th-grader from the Longfellow School
in Cambridge, are part of a unique mentoring program called Project
Athena, involving the Graduate School of Education, the Longfellow
School, and a Wellesley-based private, nonprofit organization called
the Center for Ventures in Girls' Education.
Project Athena links 7th-grade girls from the Longfellow School
with graduate students from Associate Professor of Education Ann
Rogers' Psychology of Girls and Women class, H-644. The
program's aim is to bolster the girls' self-confidence, self-
esteem, and to help them think broadly when considering lifetime
goals.
"Adolescence is a time of crisis," said Joann
Stemmermann, director of the Center for Ventures in Girls'
Education, instructor in education at the Graduate School of
Education, and project associate with Harvard Outward Bound.
"While they're entering this period, we are giving them an
adult to talk to who can reflect back the girls' best
qualities."
Though McCorvey is the mentor and Berrouet the
"mentee," as they are called, the canoe trip was designed
not only to broaden horizons, but also to put the mentor and mentee
on an equal footing.

Project Athena participants take to the Charles River during an activity
day for the mentoring program. Photo by Alvin Powell.
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"Canoeing is great because it kind of levels
everybody," Rogers said. "There are very few [Project
Athena] mentors who are expert canoers."
Last Saturday's trip involved about 30 girls, mentors,
instructors, and program officials. After an hourlong canoe school on
land that covered canoe basics and safety, the group paddled roughly
10 meandering miles on the upper Charles River, from Medfield to
Natick.
It was the second such outdoor event in this year's program,
which was launched in September with a weekend session that
involved rock climbing -- another leveling experience -- and mask
making, a fun, artistic activity that promotes trust because each has
to lie still for 30 minutes as their partner makes a plaster mold of
their face.
In addition to the outdoor excursions, the graduate students and
Longfellow students meet weekly for activities that range from
seeing a movie to sewing to studying. The only rules governing the
activity is that it must be mutually agreed upon and each must pay
their own way.
In addition to the weekly one-on-one meetings, there are monthly
program nights, where all the mentors and mentees get together for
group activities, and monthly nights for the mentors, where they can
touch base with supervisors and other mentors to seek ideas and
advice for their mentoring relationship.
"This program is a relational mentoring program. We really
focus on fostering the best qualities of each girl, and we try to keep
her connected with her true self," Stemmermann said.
This is the Project's second year at Harvard, Stemmermann
said. The program runs through the school year, September to June,
with new mentors and mentees coming in each year.
Though Harvard is the only Project Athena site this year, the
program has been in other communities and schools in the past,
Stemmermann said. Project Athena was launched by the Center for
Ventures in Girls' Education in 1994 and was first put into place
in Duxbury, involving people from the community and Duxbury
school children. It is funded by an after school grant from the
Massachusetts Campus Compact and the Massachusetts Service
Alliance.
Though Project Athena has existed in other communities, the
Harvard version is special because it involves students from the
Graduate School of Education, most of whom have experience
teaching or working with young girls, Project Athena organizers said.
In addition, the students are selected from the Psychology of Girls
and Women class, which gives the mentors an opportunity to put
into practice what they are learning about girls' development.
"They really learn the theory of girls' development in
that course," Rogers said. "The program is unique because
we provide an emphasis on mentoring the mentors."
Project Athena developed out of research Rogers did in the 1980s
on courage in young girls. Rogers defined courage as the everyday
courage present in children -- who can laugh and sing and dance in
public without feeling self-conscious.
Rogers observed that as girls grow through adolescence, much of
that courage is lost. Girls tend to withdraw, be less outspoken, and
have trouble talking about themselves and their lives. Rogers put
some of the blame on the conflicting messages girls today are subject
to. On the one hand, society tells them to speak up and be
independent. On the other, society says girls should put others first,
keep their voices moderated, and not hurt others' feelings.
The mentor's aim is to help the girl work through some of
those contradictions, boost her self-esteem, and encourage her
positive qualities.
"What we really encourage the mentor to do is engage the
girl with an honesty that is rare in most relationships between girls
and adults and to challenge them not to shut down," Rogers
said. "It means really listening to the girls."
Longfellow School Principal Margarita Otero-Alvarez believes in
the program enough to supervise the school's end of it herself.
After just two years, the program's results haven't been
measured statistically, but Otero-Alvarez said anecdotal evidence of
its success exists. One thing she has noticed is that more of the girls
in the program voice interest in attending college.
"The raising of self-esteem in these girls is incredible,"
Otero-Alvarez said. "For me, the biggest thing is the hope and
dream that they see themselves as girls that can go on to
college."
Stemmermann said that increased interest in college is not
something she's observed at other sites where Project Athena
has been in operation. She credits the mentors themselves for that
change.
"It happens because these people are students. It is very
rich for [the girls] to see an adult who they respect who wants to go
to school," Stemmermann said.
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1999 President and Fellows of Harvard College
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